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Hi.

My name is Elise (hello Elise), and I....I have penis envy. I don't mean that I wish I had a penis. Yes, it'd be fun, and yes, life would be easier...it'd probably be really fun. That's not what this is about. I want to be aggressive and not make men feel emasculated. I want it to be OK to have a careless attitude. I want to be casual about sex and be able to walk away with no strings if anything unpleasant should happen as a result of my decisions. I want to feel confident that my salary is fair and not see statistics about how I much less I make on average. I want to be more than just a bitch or a whore. I want to be able to say pussy and cunt without shock and awe.

I am not a lesbian. I love men, a lot. I love their bodies, their voices...I love their aggression and sexual prowess. I love to be handled. I just envy their position. I envy how they make me feel. How I know I'll never make anyone feel like that...

"So you want to be the 'masculine energy', or perhaps as equals? No chivalry...no special treatment. You wish to be the same."

...Not exactly. I want to be seen as beautiful. Beautiful and respected. I want to allow myself to be vulnerable. I want to bring a man to his knees. I want to be the soft gentle contrast to his strength. I want to be able to see, no to feel, love. I want to laugh. Doors that are held open are nice. Chocolates are...delicious. It's more than that. It's the look in his eyes when he smiles. It's how I want to do things I would normally wouldn't do. Things I'd tell others to fuck off for asking about. It's allowing myself to let go..

"These seem to be two contrasting schools of thought. How do you incorporate these into your life?"

I accept that I will misrepresent myself and present conflicting  sides which would make knowing the proper course of action for a prospective mate damn near impossible. I also know that happiness is more than everything that I've just said and that all or none could be present to create something that at the time is considered to be perfect.

"Break it down then. What is attraction?"


It starts with a smell.